

| Starting the process A few years ago, I made a decision to leave behind me what seemed like everything I had built up in my life up to that point, and strike out in a whole new direction. As I went through this process, it often felt to me as if I was doing the same journey as the Israelites, from Egypt, through the desert, and eventually into the Promised Land. I have tried to capture a few of the most significant elements of that journey in here, and I hope it will be of value to you, as it had been to me, at the time, as you set out to change your life. I will start from where my life was at as I approached a point of almost total breakdown, and then take you through the process of what had happened from there. Sometimes I will use extracts from my Journal to help you see a bit of where I was at. Maybe, you could find some value in seeing and understanding some of the process that was part of making a major change to my life. I'm going to start from the beginning of 2007. Maybe just a quick word of background. I had been working, before that, for a large IT company, and I'd become increasingly frustrated with that career. So I'd started becoming involved in a few restaurants as a partner and part time manager. I was working half day for the IT company, and half-day in the restaurants. Financially we'd made some bad decisions, so things were going rather tight, and seemed to just be getting worse. I was grappling with my fundamental approaches to life, and grappling with living a life that seemed to be continually driving me to the edge of either a heart attack or suicide. |